Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Spoilt Brats And Gossip Girls

Everyone loves a good story dont they? But when it starts to get all annoying and too out there, well thats really ... annoying isnt it?

For example, lets say you are seriously rich and drop dead gorgeous, do you think people care if you're trying so hard to prove that you are? Okay maybe for that 10 minutes but after that you're back to being a pathetic nobody. If you have it all, shouting your lungs out proves (most of the times) you dont have what you're shouting about. Because, you might be rich, or smart, or beautiful but always remember there are people out there who is much much better than you are, than we are. But they dont go around screaming about this and that. Its just too bad when you're trying that hard.

I am not a saint. And yes, myself like many other girls out there, we are obsessed over beauty, harta dunia, segala kebendaan which isnt important at all when we're dead and i know i might have mentioned the word Chanel way too many times in here, i am guilty i know. But look around you, 28950375097350 girls are doing the same thing too. But i have always believed that there's a limit to everything. I try my hardest to put a limit on things to write that would simply make people puke.

Because really, do you think people would want to hear what a spoilt little brat you are? Its nice to write about these things sometimes. Honestly who doesnt like shiny pretty things kan? But not in 90% of your entries. Orang baca pun nak muntah lah wei, seriously what the hell were you thinking?

C'mon we get it that you're what you're trying to make people see and believe so maybe its time to write about something else darling. Because if you really want to show you're all that, i humbly suggest you start making your blog private. Its better that way.

The main reason most of us blogs is because we're too lazy to write in real diaries. A blog is easier for us to type our hearts out. Its less tiring this way. But blogging as we all know, has its pros and cons. People will get to know you, about your family, your friends, your lifestyle, about what you have and what you dont ... what you wear, where you go and the list goes on. I am not saying people should be hypocrites but they are things i believe should be left out, that shouldnt see the day light at all. Because who would want to show the whole world their disgusting flaws right? Everyone wants to be a saint, everyone wants to be innocent but sooner or later people will eventually find out ... through you, by reading your personal blog.

And believe me when i say we're living the Gossip Girl era. We are the Gossip Girl. Ask yourselves, how many times have you called up a friend, or a cousin or your sister just to tell her about the new gossip a little birdie just told you or about that scandalous photo you just saw on Twitpic? Yes people, dont even try to deny it. So that is why we must always remember, the pen is always mightier than the sword.

Express yourself all you want, entertain your readers, curse someone today, love someone tomorrow ... its your blog. But let us all try to balance it. We must try not to make our readers vomit blood. Because whats the point in keeping a blog if you have no readers? And newsflash, family members cannot be counted as your readers. They are family, duh of course they must read your blog.

6 comments:

reena said...

Well said, Melissa!

*Clap clap*

Melissa R. said...

thank you babe. dah lama tak tulis entry panjang meluahkan perasaan yang terbuku dihati :)

Unknown said...

ehh...gossip girl tu movies ker kak melissa?

Melissa R. said...

you're in a denial

Unknown said...

denial h?

Melissa R. said...

psycho